With the emergence of the internet as a mainstream alternative to traditional ways for singles to meet, the customary parameters of dating are fading away. Along with the expansion of the use of online dating comes the threat of being scammed. I’m not trying to discourage anyone from using the internet as a tool for dating. Instead I want to education you about possible frauds and prepare you on how to avoid them.
As the number of users increase, there is an ever-increasing rise in the number of bogus profiles and romance scams. A recent study on online dating statistics shows that over 163 million American singles are using online dating services. In 2009, the Better Business Bureau received 2,660 complaints about online dating services, this number does not capture the countless number of cases that go unreported each year. While you might be tempted to think that this couldn’t possibly happen to you, a look at the horrifying stories that are posted on the web daily of unsuspecting singles should make you reevaluate your level of vulnerability when it comes to smooth-talking con artists. Here are three warning signs that you may be dealing with a scammer:
- Presents model quality photos
- Discusses the costs and requirements of a
US - Claims any costly emergency, e.g. travel, financial, illness - these frauds will have you so convinced by their lie that you will offer the money freely.
The appeal of online dating sites is the implicit promise that they will do all the work when it comes to finding you suitable companions. Rely on your instincts and common sense, if you decide to try an internet dating service. Play detective. Only use sites that are reputable, read customer reviews, talk to friends or family that have tried dating via the web. Use the internet to do a background search on the people you connect with before the date. Adequate research reduces the chance that your bank account will be drained and your heart broken.
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