Monday, April 18, 2011

D.I.Y Dating Cocktails

Catching Up Over Cocktails

Reconnecting with a former love interest can provide a thrilling opportunity for sharing familiar memories while sipping a few cocktails.  For some, the reunion provides a chance to consider what might have been and decide if another go-round is worth it.  Fortunately, technology makes it easier than ever to reconnect with those from the past.

Undoubtedly, some will use this occasion to indulge in frisky, but hopefully not risky, sexual behavior.  But there are other options to this scenario -- new beginnings, closing that chapter, reminiscing about days gone by and handling unfinished business. Take a cue from a pro; this situation is all about timing.

The Ingredients

1.      Romance: green light, off limits
2.      Time: a quick drink, a few hours, all night long
3.      History: old flame, secret admirer, friends with benefits
4.      The location:  lounge, club, bar, your place or theirs, hotel
5.      Interaction with each other: strictly conversation, frisky, sexual, combination
6.      The vibe that night: not interested, wait and see, start off easy, time to make a move
7.      Finance: free, going Dutch, splurge

Here’s A Possible Recipe:
Green Light, All Night Long, Old Flame, Your Place, Combo, Make A Move, Splurge
Tip: Be cautious when reuniting with an old flame.  If you were emotionally, physically, or financially scarred because of the relationship, I strongly advise against the reunion.  Further, if it is not the right time, or you are not in a good “place” avoid the temptation to relive past mistakes instead of past glories.  If the prior relationship ended on good terms, however, then I say enjoy your night and safe sex is the best sex!!!!!

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